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Jarhok Belouve - Student  |
oh well i guess its over between me and my girl, if anyone has any painfull storys feel free to unload them on me  _______________ -JARHOK BELOUVE- Unofficial Paddy to the great Squibit Belouve and Solitudes snog machine! |||||||||||||||||||||||PRONOUNCED JARHOK TEH S3X3H by Alexander D'kana||||||||||||||||||||||||| Loves Liso'sia! Uber new Belouve boy! My special people: Squibit Belouve,Roan Belouve,Bail Hope Belouve and of course the lovely Liso'sia! |
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Raziel Anjelis - Student 
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Bail....that wasn't aimed at you..... _______________ Proud owner of El Vee For's 200th Comment, and Wicek's 2600th comment  DaMi3N's 400th, Trad Redav's 666th.
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Bail Hope of Belouve - Student 
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as hypothetical as a goose that's on a bear's back  _______________ Visit the Belouve Family Website! Quote: I try to have fun with my friends and try to make a difference as best I can. What does making a difference mean? Well, it can be as simple as saying hello, answering a question that seems obvious or heck, just talking. -- Vladarion
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Tootsy Wootsy - Student 
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Quote: okay, got a question for you all what about being in a relationship for years with someone you truly love... but there's that other girl you can't help but feel attracted to, what do you do? This is purely hypothetic Tootsy I hope this is hypothetic Edit: And, yes, it took me 6 days to find this post... _______________ Severus Snape's girlfriend. Owner of Raziel Jowols 700th comment! This comment was edited by Tootsy Wootsy on Oct 12 2004 09:38pm. |
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Bail Hope of Belouve - Student
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Quote: Anyway best of luck with your future relationships. future relationships? This one isn't even over yet _______________ Visit the Belouve Family Website! Quote: I try to have fun with my friends and try to make a difference as best I can. What does making a difference mean? Well, it can be as simple as saying hello, answering a question that seems obvious or heck, just talking. -- Vladarion
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Raziel Anjelis - Student
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Quote: yes, but how do you know that your girlfriend is the one? Yeah, they don't tend to usually fly around kicking the hell out of agents in a long coat and sunglasses.I've never seen a tag on a women's forehead saying "The One" You would have feelings for someone else, thats perfectly natural. I'm in a relationship right now but I started it when I was recovering from my old one (the stab in the back gf). Its not the same thing, but close. Really, the relationship involves someone who loves you for who you are, while the other girl has just looked at you and thought 'He's a bit of alright'. Just like Masta said. I watched a soap opera recently, and it had a bloke crying his eyes out because his fiancee cheated on him. He continually mopes and moans. Don't descend to that level, mate, you'll destroy yourself internally. Anyway best of luck with your future relationships. _______________ Proud owner of El Vee For's 200th Comment, and Wicek's 2600th comment DaMi3N's 400th, Trad Redav's 666th.
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Koyi Donita - Student 
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Quote: yes, but how do you know that your girlfriend is the one? I've never seen a tag on a women's forehead saying "The One" I'm sorry to say this, but this really concerns me. Being in a relationship is a real blessing, a gift if you will. If things are going good, or even better, great then your a lucky guy/gal. Having feelings/attactions/relations with anyone even outside of a broken relationship is just wrong. True, the heart plays with some people some of the time and love is very unpredictable, but try not to get blinded by the what if's. With the attraction now facing you, your vision has probably become cloudy about the whole situation to where you might wanna nitpick the relationship to find loopholes and ways out to keep your interests open. I'm praying for you my friend because that is a situation I never want to be in and will never allow myself to fall into God willing. Please try to look at your current relationship outside the attraction to get a clear view of it. If the relationship is good, thank God or just be very thankful that your heart isn't heading for heartache. If it is truely a bad one, maybe you should sever it, give yourself some time, get to know this attraction a little better, and if things are going well, move on. Please just keep in your mind that there are alot of guys/girls out there who don't click with girls/guys very well and some that have exceedingly difficult times trying to get one to call their own. In this way, a relationship is truely a blessing. These are just my thoughts on your situation. Hopefully there is some wisdom in what I have shared with you. Again, I will be praying for you. God Bless.  *edit* I missed the part where you said it was hypothetical. Oops. But...just incase it isn't.....you still have my thoughts and prayers.  _______________ For I am not ashamed of the gospel of Christ: for it is the power of God unto salvation to every one that believeth; to the Jew first, and also to the Greek. Rom. 1:16 So then faith cometh by hearing, and hearing by the word of God. Rom. 10:17 I love my babyface. Smilykrazy is my baby and I love her. ...Swimming through the void we hear the Word, we lose ourselves but we find it all... System Of A Down.
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Bail Hope of Belouve - Student 
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Quote: Girls confuse me... I need to apologize for spreading what was apparently a falsehood. My ex finally made contact with me and we set a few things straight. If what she says is true, the stories I heard about her drinking habits are grossly exaggerated. Apparently, she is not an alcoholic and just thought the spark had gone out of our relationship. Sadly, I think it would have been easier to hate and be hated at this point. Theres nothing worse than coming to the conclusion that you just weren't good enough somehow. I'm very sorry to hear that But look at it from the bright side. She's not an alcoholic, she can continue with her life, and you can continue with yours. I know that if you had continued like this, somehow you would blame yourself for leaving her with the alcoholic problem (I know that, because that's what I would do). Sooner or later, the guilt would rise up. At this point, you can continue with your life, without ever feeling guilt. That's kind of a bright side, I think ... (not sure though, as I'm obviously younger than you are) _______________ Visit the Belouve Family Website! Quote: I try to have fun with my friends and try to make a difference as best I can. What does making a difference mean? Well, it can be as simple as saying hello, answering a question that seems obvious or heck, just talking. -- Vladarion
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NofrikinfuN - Retired 
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Girls confuse me... I need to apologize for spreading what was apparently a falsehood. My ex finally made contact with me and we set a few things straight. If what she says is true, the stories I heard about her drinking habits are grossly exaggerated. Apparently, she is not an alcoholic and just thought the spark had gone out of our relationship. Sadly, I think it would have been easier to hate and be hated at this point. Theres nothing worse than coming to the conclusion that you just weren't good enough somehow. |
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Ash - Eats Babies 
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Quote: yes, but how do you know that your girlfriend is the one? I've never seen a tag on a women's forehead saying "The One" That's the question that has plagued relationships since the beggining of time. To be honest there is no real answer. You must first do alot of soul searching and discover who you are before you can decide what it is you are looking for. This is all on an idividual level. Some people may need to go through alot of dating in their lifetime before determining what interest them in a partner. Others may stay in a relationship with the first person they ever dated. It may take alot of meditation and thinking to figure out who this "one" is. Or maybe one day an epiphany will hit you like a ton of bricks and you will just know who is right for you. You just have to trust fate and destiny that true love will be clear as a window when it crosses your path. _______________ "We keep odd hours...." ----------------------- They Live, We Sleep This comment was edited by Ash on Oct 07 2004 09:11pm. |
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Bail Hope of Belouve - Student
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yes, but how do you know that your girlfriend is the one? I've never seen a tag on a women's forehead saying "The One" _______________ Visit the Belouve Family Website! Quote: I try to have fun with my friends and try to make a difference as best I can. What does making a difference mean? Well, it can be as simple as saying hello, answering a question that seems obvious or heck, just talking. -- Vladarion
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SaberWeildinKow - Student 
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Quote: I would stay in that relationship...never would i give up my true love for something thatll make me happy for 1-2 months... /agree |
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Masta - Jedi Council 
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I would stay in that relationship...never would i give up my true love for something thatll make me happy for 1-2 months... _______________ Find out more about the Jedi Academy Aurochs here and more about Masta here! Married to Kain. |
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Fire - Student 
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seriousity! noooooooooooooooooooooooooooo cornshnibbity |
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Raider - Student 
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Quote: okay, got a question for you all what about being in a relationship for years with someone you truly love... but there's that other girl you can't help but feel attracted to, what do you do? This is purely hypothetic Tootsy *COUGH* 3-WAY *COUGH* _______________ Artificial intelligence beats natural stupidity. |
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Bail Hope of Belouve - Student
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okay, got a question for you all what about being in a relationship for years with someone you truly love... but there's that other girl you can't help but feel attracted to, what do you do? This is purely hypothetic Tootsy _______________ Visit the Belouve Family Website! Quote: I try to have fun with my friends and try to make a difference as best I can. What does making a difference mean? Well, it can be as simple as saying hello, answering a question that seems obvious or heck, just talking. -- Vladarion
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Jarhok Belouve - Student 
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sweet jesus this post has actually started some SERIOUS conversations, that has to be a first _______________ -JARHOK BELOUVE- Unofficial Paddy to the great Squibit Belouve and Solitudes snog machine! |||||||||||||||||||||||PRONOUNCED JARHOK TEH S3X3H by Alexander D'kana||||||||||||||||||||||||| Loves Liso'sia! Uber new Belouve boy! My special people: Squibit Belouve,Roan Belouve,Bail Hope Belouve and of course the lovely Liso'sia! |
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SaberWeildinKow - Student
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Leif...I'm as old as you!!  Good gosh, you're maturity has led me to believe you are an adult |
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Fire - Student 
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to be different, is to be unique. if those silly jocks and popular people think that you're retarded just because you're so much more different than them, believe me, it's a good thing. if they don't like you, big whoop, tis not the end of the world. remember, you are who you want yourself to be. and also, friendships goes a long way. if everyone was the same in the world, we'd have no equilibrium (stole that from cool movie) aka balance. people like you for who you are, what's on the inside (at least the nice people that are your true friends) not the people who will criticize you for being yourself. anyway, although i'm still in sophomore year of high school, i've found a lot of inspiration to go my way, not what other people want me to be. my girlfriend likes me for who i am, and vice versa. but one time, my girlfriend kicked me in the balls because of some unforetold happenings >_>. that really sucked. but life goes on! yay. ps sorry bout your old fiancee nff, that must have seriously sucked. This comment was edited by Fire on Oct 06 2004 02:12am. |
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NofrikinfuN - Retired 
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Many thanks for the kind words, guys. |
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Thomasooo - Student 
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Quote: Here's one. I had been in a relationship with my fiancee' for about 5 years, with a 3 month seperation in the middle. We've had our ups and downs, but we were each others' first loves/serious relationships. Well, after I finished college in early March, I moved into an apartment with her. I had already asked her to marry me, and she said we would get married once she could find time off work for a proper ceremony/honeymoon. In the meantime, I was trying to find a job... Which was proving to be nearly impossible. She developed a drinking problem and decided that since I wasn't part of her favorite activity (Going to the bar with her friend) we obviously weren't meant to be together. That said, she broke up with me. Basically, alcohol has managed to make my life a little harder even though I avoid it like the plague... Go figure. Anyway, even though she always claimed we had the "forever" kind of love, we didn't last 6 months living together. Now, she won't speak to me. On the occaisions that I've gone to her, she has been mainly cold and distant... The last occaision I tried to offer her friendship. I thought it went well, but days later found she was telling people that I had begged her to come back to me and tried to break into her apartment. (I knocked on her door for ten minutes one day when I knew she was home... Apparently, thats practically breaking in.) Anyway, forever love can easily turn into forever hate I guess. Holy crap, NFF! That's one heckuva sad story. _______________ In the navy and LOVING it!
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SilkMonkey - Distributor of Cold Ones 
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Alright...I guess I should lighten us up a little... Does this make you available Ash? I could use a hetero life partner  _______________ |-HK-47 -SilkMonkey: You are receiving a warning for being_too_sexy. If you do not stop, action will be taken against you.|| (11:13:43) � Virtue dances for Silk ||Smiling owner of Smilykrazy's 6000th comment =) ||Odan Wei's Proud Big Brother|| Janus is my official TaruTaru Cuddly Animal Type Person. ||(@Virtue) Or you could just be a man and set fire to your genitals.....you won't fall asleep for days after that.......trust me.||Thomas Skywalker er for sexy for sitt eget beste!!!!| Not changing sig until the JA loosens up. (Started: Aug 31, 2005) |
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Ash - Eats Babies 
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Wow, it's great that you guys are giving me advice. I too have always believed in the "don't let them get away" philosophy but with my case it just seems different. We both sort of had a mutual acknowledgement that a relationship between us wouldn't work out that well. She ended up meeting some guy and, with my advice, she has been dating him for a year and a half. They seem like a perfect couple. I'm not going to let my feelings get in the way of her life. I'm just glad I'm still her friend. I don't get too hung up about the whole thing. There's someone else in my life I should focus more on right now. If it wasn't meant to be then it wasn't meant to be. _______________ "We keep odd hours...." ----------------------- They Live, We Sleep |
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SilkMonkey - Distributor of Cold Ones
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Here's what I don't understand, and maybe it's me. If a guy has to turn to porn because he can't talk to his wife/girlfriend about what's going on his head(s) there is more than one problem. I'm not saying porn is a good thing at all, but if anyone is trying to blame porn for all problems with relationships or why people break up...well then you also have problems. Case in point...I was in a relationship once where I almost never got to see my girl. And I know I loved her and wanted what was best for her. But I told her that I was kinda lacking any kind of physical attention (not sure how to phrase it without being crude). She SUGGESTED I use porn when I absolutely needed it; believing it to be a better option than me looking for a closer girlfriend. Onto what matters: Ash...don't just let her walk away. I did that...and I haven't seen her or heard from her in about 2 years. Don't try to live thinking about what could have been. Go find out CAN/WILL things be...not IF THEY WERE. Best wishes for you with that. NoFrickinFun....man I can't explain how bad I felt when I read that. I know she has to be kicking herself everyday for doing something like that. But that's her problem. Go find yourself a woman who deserves you. And best wishes to you too you sexeh studmuffin. _______________ |-HK-47 -SilkMonkey: You are receiving a warning for being_too_sexy. If you do not stop, action will be taken against you.|| (11:13:43) � Virtue dances for Silk ||Smiling owner of Smilykrazy's 6000th comment =) ||Odan Wei's Proud Big Brother|| Janus is my official TaruTaru Cuddly Animal Type Person. ||(@Virtue) Or you could just be a man and set fire to your genitals.....you won't fall asleep for days after that.......trust me.||Thomas Skywalker er for sexy for sitt eget beste!!!!| Not changing sig until the JA loosens up. (Started: Aug 31, 2005) |
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Thomasooo - Student
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Sad to hear about this, Jar. But remember: There are lots girls in this world. _______________ In the navy and LOVING it!
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Kueller - Student 
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I hope everything goes well with you, and that you'll get over her soon. Just be sad for a few days and then live on, at least, that's what I try to do (mostly I can't .) About the pr0n stuff, it CAN screw up relationship, and i'm not talking about whining wifes, but about the broader perspective. It also completely screws up young peoples vision about how sex and relationships are. Since there was internet and pr0n industry, the rate of problems relating to relationships and sex heightened. Just trying to say that you gotta watch yourself watching and try to stay as you are. _______________ Personal sleepness-nights-supporter of Virtue. Owner of the 1000th comment of Daidalus and 1943th comment of Gradius! Owner of the 300th comment of Carda! -Taught Gradius all his laming skills
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