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Why I hate my ex!
Jan 28 2005 07:04am

(Jedi)Obi-JK
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(Jedi)Obi-JK
Ok, so I would like thank, some of you, for reply the what this thrad used to be.

Now I have a new agenda, I need to vent. I have been seeing this for just over a year, and finally told her "I loe you"

At this very moment she breaks down in tears, and says "I love you too, but I have to break up with you."

Wait! why, wtf! OMG! I don't understand.

Oh yeah my EX-girlfriend is Indian and her parents would NOT approve of her dating a "white" man.

Yeah that is right my EX-girlfriend is in love with me, but ended it because or race/religion.

So I would just like that state for the record:

1.) Racism it RETARED!!!!!
2.) Religion is retared (I know this will piss a lot of you off, but realize I just lost the love of my life because I am not her race/religion cut me a litttle slack here)

Yeah, I will be AFK awhile, as I piece my life back together.




Since misery LOVES campany, please feel free to share your stories of why of your ex sucks
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This post was edited by (Jedi)Obi-JK on Feb 18 2005 05:26am.

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Feb 18 2005 07:35pm

Thomasooo
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 Thomasooo

Oh man, Obi. :( I'm so sorry to hear about this. :( I really hope it works out for you two, man. :alliance:
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Feb 18 2005 05:04pm

SaZ
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 SaZ

if her parents really love her...
they will notice her mood change...
and maybe...
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Feb 18 2005 04:35pm

solitude
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 solitude

sometimes people hope for things that will not happen. if she loves you like you love her she wouldnt have dont it to hurt you. if nothing else you had some time toghther which you enjoyed. thats something.
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Feb 18 2005 04:18pm

(Jedi)Obi-JK
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 (Jedi)Obi-JK

Quote:
why you hate your ex?
thats not her fault that she was born in that damn country(or maybe in this case...family).
blame the traditions etc...
just kidnap her from her parents :)



Well I don't actually hate her parents, nor do I hate her religion, this was just misplaced anger.

It's probably impossible for me to hate her, with that whole being in love with her thing. The problem is that she knew from our 1st date that it is impossible for there to be a future. That is something she should have told me BEFORE we fell in love with each other.
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Feb 18 2005 03:02pm

solitude
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 solitude

Don't hate dude. in the end youll just feel bitter. if a girl has to choose between you and a a parent (especially her mum) she'll choose family, trust me, i found out the hard way. if you really still love her, keep trying, if you start to hate, just more on. unfortunately nothing about life is fair, sucky things happen which are out of your control. just dont let one incident like this get you down too much.
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Feb 18 2005 02:25pm

Vasper Ba'xian
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 Vasper Ba'xian

If you love her as much as you say you do, and you KNOW that she loves you, DON'T GIVE UP. Talk to her parrents. Tell them how much you love their daughter. That just because your not a part of their religion doesn't mean that you don't respect it or them. Just confess everything to them M8. What harm could it do now? Buy her flowers do what ever you can think of, just let them see you do it. It could wake them up. I hope all works out.;)
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This comment was edited by Vasper Ba'xian on Feb 18 2005 02:28pm.

Feb 18 2005 02:01pm

Garos
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 Garos

Oh man JOJK, that sucks balls!

Feb 18 2005 01:52pm

SaZ
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 SaZ

why you hate your ex?
thats not her fault that she was born in that damn country(or maybe in this case...family).
blame the traditions etc...
just kidnap her from her parents :)
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Feb 18 2005 11:05am

Masta
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 Masta

"Hi, i am in love with you but i let my parents tell me who to date." <- gg

Well, i completly agree with your #1 point.But erm...you cant blame religion for such stuff...it would be like errr...blaming the teeth of a dog after he has bitten you.
You should rather blame her parents for beeing stupid...and if you are really in love with her...then you shouldnt just let it go like this.
How about talking to her about it?If shes really in love with you...then you shouldnt have too many difficulties to persuade her that her parents are wrong.

Its a bit different when she supports the opinion of her parents tho.Then she would be like "i want to be together with you, but i dont want it" which obviously doesnt make sense.
Her decision would depend on what she loves more...you or the opinions of her parents.
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This comment was edited by Masta on Feb 18 2005 11:14am.

Feb 18 2005 07:38am

thewind
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I am very sorry to hear that, Jedi. Best wishes.

Feb 18 2005 05:49am

Ash
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Quote:
Again, domain names are cheaper than roses!


Not really. I just cut a bunch out of my mom's garden. I'm smooth like that.
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Feb 17 2005 02:55pm

JavaGuy
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 JavaGuy

Actually I was thinking that the domain name should have her name in it, in which case you might as well make her the legal owner as well. If you get a new girlfriend and want to reuse the idea, get her a new domain name. Again, domain names are cheaper than roses!
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Feb 17 2005 12:46pm

Dicemaster
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 Dicemaster

if you get a chance obi, and ever need a good gift idea, http://www.womenbygrace.com/home006.html i gave something like that to my girlfriend. They are easy to make, took me about an hour and a half to make and about 1 hour to find fabric i like. I haven't given her the gift yet, (tomorrow:)) but all our female friends say its an AWESOME gift especially since i made it. Its really easy to make as well, just follow the site
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Feb 17 2005 06:14am

Senor Hat
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 Senor Hat

have a mentos, then you'll think of something good:D
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Feb 17 2005 06:04am

(Jedi)Obi-JK
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 (Jedi)Obi-JK

www.prettiestgirlintheworld.com

is for sale for $288!!!!!!

Thats a bit much right now though :(


I think I might start saving up for it though.

Oh and JavaGuy, I would advise against putting it in her name, this way if we ever breakup (not that I want to or anything) I can use this great idea all over again!
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This comment was edited by (Jedi)Obi-JK on Feb 17 2005 06:06am.

Feb 16 2005 09:19pm

JavaGuy
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 JavaGuy

Stay away from the puzzle idea. My Dad had a simple rule for gifts: Never give anything that can be perceived as an "assignment," as a task to be completed. A puzzle is a particular zinger because if it's too simple she'll be really unimpressed, and the more complicated the greater probability that she'll give up, thus ruining the moment.

Web site: Great idea. Take it a step further. Register a domain name for her--put all the legal stuff in her name but you pay for it--and put the web site there. This will: 1. cost you considerably less than roses :D , 2. be a very personal gift that shows you care and 3. be something that you obviously put some time, effort and thought into.
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Feb 15 2005 07:21am

Sfire
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 Sfire

Hey ...if you really want, I can give you some free hosting at my website. I have a server... www.modhq.net and I would be more than happy to help you out. Contact me on MSN: hockeyace33@Hotmail.com or send me an email at solofire@gmail.com or an account name and password, and I'll set up a subdomain and ftp for you. :)
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Feb 15 2005 02:40am

Vaughn
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 Vaughn

free webhosting: geocities/angelfire/brinkster?
puzzel: good idea, but not too crazily hard.
the mirror site, well, itll be hard to do it right

but give it a try ;)
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Jan 28 2005 06:28pm

Raziel Anjelis
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 Raziel Anjelis

You could make a special site for her showing how much you care..cuz puzzles tend to frustrate women especially when on the mood swing. You could ring her, and say a word puzzle, and the answer is the url e.g. www.(location of your first date here).com, or something.
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This comment was edited by Raziel Anjelis on Jan 28 2005 06:35pm.

Jan 28 2005 10:13am

Menaxia
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 Menaxia

Puzzle 2 is more personal, and she's less likely to get frustrated with it than a chinease puzzle box ;)
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