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theres a girl that i really like and she likes me too but she is going out with someone right now right when i was gonna ask her out and now i don't know what to do. i mean like were really good friends like we talk to each other in class everyday and we sit next to each other she says hi in a really weird way like she likes me or something. when i see her i like always look at her for a while and today i saw her and was walking and then i tripped so yea. shes pretty hot too and we like the same music, hobbies, etc. and all my friends think that she likes me. anywayz what should i do? This post was edited by Jimbob-wan on Mar 21 2005 10:23pm. |
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Italian Ice - Student 
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This has happend many-a-time to me man, and here is what has worked in the past for me. Stay friends with her, but talk about there relationship together alot. see if you can find out what she Dosent like about him, then use that to be a better friend then he is a boyfriend. When they break up, if she is really all you say, she will realize who has been there for her and who has really listend. Do your best to make shure that is you.  and as far as the jerk of a boyfriend of hers, I can very easly see him flipping out on you like that. But, its almost a good thing he did. That means that she is talking about you to him, and thats fustrateing him. One last thing, people talk alot, and do little. Just cuz this guy pushed you, dosnt mean he acually has the balls to hit you, But if he ever dose, then you crush him. Remeber that as long as you dont give up NO one can beat you. Now dont take what i just said and go repeat it to him or anything, or go up and start pushing him. when dealing with jerks its all about subtle things. If he ever dose hit you, its because he thinks your not going to do anything. Let him think that, then show him horribly wrong. _______________ It's funny how many people know they have the right to remain silent, yet never do. This comment was edited by Italian Ice on Mar 24 2005 09:01pm. |
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JavaGuy - Student 
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I second the point that you're only in the 8th grade. When you get older though, here's something to consider when you're in a situation like this: If she's someone else's girlfriend and constantly flirting with you, then I guarantee she'll be flirting with other guys when (and if) she is ever your girlfriend. _______________ My signature is only one line. You're welcome. |
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hehe yea, didn't mean for it to sound like that. Just meant, if you're hanging around her all the time, in a really obvious manner, doesn't look too great for her bf, y'know? _______________ Brother to Luke Skywalker and (SKX) Dark Blade 
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SaZ - Student 
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Quote: Have you been hanging around that girl a lot? Cos if you have, i'm pretty sure her boyfriend was thinking along the same lines Aron just mentioned. What would you be thinking if some guy kept trying to hang around your girlfriend? doh that guy (the enemy of our guy )wants to have that girl only for himself... dunno what kind of girl would like to be a gf of guy like that... you should say something like this to that guy : COME ON DUDE THERE IS A THING CALLED 'FRIENDS'!!! _______________ playing jk3 since 30th of january (2005), member since 1st of february. [Unofficial Master to Vision and Z�diac ] If you can make a fool of yourself infront of 300 people you can do anything - Jaiko D'kana |
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Ashyr - Student 
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I have two things to say, but I see they have already been said: Quote: shes someone elses. leave her. Quote: hey jimbob, your only in 8th grade...you got like 6-8 years before marrige is possible, give it time, just relax and do whats natural. there will be lots of opportunities in high school, and eventually you will find that special one. -Dice _______________ Top ten reasons to get a better computer...|My fan |
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xAnAtOs - Student |
Have you been hanging around that girl a lot? Cos if you have, i'm pretty sure her boyfriend was thinking along the same lines Aron just mentioned. What would you be thinking if some guy kept trying to hang around your girlfriend? _______________ Brother to Luke Skywalker and (SKX) Dark Blade
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Jools is my best friend.
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Ash - Eats Babies 
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Quote: i saw them........doing stuff together. i wanted to say hi and then her boyfriend was all like wat the f*** you flirting with my girl then he pushed me and then she was all like defending me and everything and then he was all like stay away from her. c'mon lets go!. and then they left. I WAS SO FRICKIN PISSED!!!!  I'm not trying to be mean when I say this, but this only comes to two logical explanations. Either: a) you want to give us a bad impression of the boy and give you all the advice you can get so you can actually have the girl b) you're telling the truth. If it's A, then no. Leave them alone. If it's B, then you don't have to deal with that type of crap. That doesn't mean you fight him, but you just got to stick up for yourself, you know? You can't rely on the girl to defend you. It still sounds like it's A, however. Who in the right mind would do something like that? Even the tough dudes wouldn't do something like that. Actually if it's B, then forget the girl. She obviusly wants to stay with a testosterone filled guerilla who feels the need to flex his aggression at anything that threatens his tiny alpha male hierarchy. Quote: What do you mean? I'm asking what happened to the girl you dedicated a whole post to in this ---->!THREAD!<---- Did you just give up on her or what? _______________ "We keep odd hours...." ----------------------- They Live, We Sleep |
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Lian Del Rey - Student 
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Quote: i saw them........doing stuff together. i wanted to say hi and then her boyfriend was all like wat the f*** you flirting with my girl then he pushed me and then she was all like defending me and everything and then he was all like stay away from her. c'mon lets go!. and then they left. I WAS SO FRICKIN PISSED!!!! I'm not trying to be mean when I say this, but this only comes to two logical explanations. Either: a) you want to give us a bad impression of the boy and give you all the advice you can get so you can actually have the girl b) you're telling the truth. If it's A, then no. Leave them alone. If it's B, then you don't have to deal with that type of crap. That doesn't mean you fight him, but you just got to stick up for yourself, you know? You can't rely on the girl to defend you. It still sounds like it's A, however. Who in the right mind would do something like that? Even the tough dudes wouldn't do something like that. _______________ slorp |
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Jimbob-wan - Student 
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i saw them........doing stuff together. i wanted to say hi and then her boyfriend was all like wat the f*** you flirting with my girl then he pushed me and then she was all like defending me and everything and then he was all like stay away from her. c'mon lets go!. and then they left. I WAS SO FRICKIN PISSED!!!! |
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Lian Del Rey - Student
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Quote: Sorry, there is no possible way that that statement can get any simpler without getting more confusing. _______________ slorp |
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Jimbob-wan - Student
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Quote: Wait a minute, what happened to this chick?  What do you mean? |
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o2b - Student 
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Ditch girls, play games They're a lot cheaper and hassle-free  |
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Thomasooo - Student 
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EEEK! LOVE!! *hides* Complicated matter even for a jedi master this is. >_> <_< Ummmmm...I pretty much agree with what Aron said, though. Sounds most reasonable. :-/ _______________ In the navy and LOVING it!
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Aron - Retired 
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This may sound harsh but... Put this thing behind you, wether it is easy or not; wether you like it or not. She is someone else's. If some guy was hanging around my girlfriend all the time, he would be in big trouble. |
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NotSoLittleCaesar - Student 
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aye, relax, be good friends...similar things happenin to me, just wait until her and her boyfriend break up, be tehre to help he and im sure things will go on course _______________ Quote: I mostly agree oh Lord of the squeezy mop
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SaZ - Student
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Quote: Wait a minute, what happened to this chick? good question _______________ playing jk3 since 30th of january (2005), member since 1st of february. [Unofficial Master to Vision and Z�diac ] If you can make a fool of yourself infront of 300 people you can do anything - Jaiko D'kana |
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Menaxia - Student 
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I agree with Lian - if she has another guy, then you should do the honourable thing and leave her alone. That does not mean you can't be friends; anyway, when she dumps him you'll still be there _______________ This is not the place to look for me |
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Ash - Eats Babies 
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Wait a minute, what happened to this chick? _______________ "We keep odd hours...." ----------------------- They Live, We Sleep |
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SaZ - Student 
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i suggest you doing that i told ya in post earlier _______________ playing jk3 since 30th of january (2005), member since 1st of february. [Unofficial Master to Vision and Z�diac ] If you can make a fool of yourself infront of 300 people you can do anything - Jaiko D'kana |
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Jimbob-wan - Student 
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but..................... |
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Dicemaster - Student 
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hey jimbob, your only in 8th grade...you got like 6-8 years before marrige is possible, give it time, just relax and do whats natural. there will be lots of opportunities in high school, and eventually you will find that special one. -Dice _______________ Dicemaster |
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solitude - Jedi Council 
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Quote: could we get back to my problem? ok, ill summarise for you. shes someone elses. leave her. _______________ Joined 16 October 2004 | Retired 10 April 2005 | Returned 05 June 2008 | Made Staff 27 June 2008 | Made Council 18 January 2009 Padawan To Odan-Wei Belouve | Adopted into the Belouve family | Twin to xAnAtOs | Owner of the 4th Quesi sexy badge Brother To Roan Belouve, Nomad, Majno, Silkmonkey, Kensei and Jarhok Belouve
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Lian Del Rey - Student 
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Like I said, just leave them alone. _______________ slorp |
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Jimbob-wan - Student
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could we get back to my problem? |
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CuZzA - Student 
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Quote: Gradius said: Quote: Well, I'm not a girl  wtf? That's not what you told me when I hit on you! I was waiting for somebody to say that  _______________ - Even if Carlsberg made "w*nkers", Christiano Ronaldo would still be the biggest "w*nker" in the world |
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