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shall I dump my girlfriend?
May 26 2003 01:12am

Jake Kainite
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Jake Kainite
I've been going out with my girlfriend for about 3 months now, but I feel we have nothing in common, cept the physical side, but that can't be the basis for a relationship....

So I thought I'd do the mature and honourable thing......LET YOU GUYS DECIDE :D
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Poll
Should I dump her ? She's a lovely girl, but we are too different.........

vote results
Yes Yes [8 votes] [15%]
No No [4 votes] [8%]
Wait a while and see if it works out Wait a while and see if it works out [9 votes] [17%]
Talk to her about it Talk to her about it [26 votes] [49%]
You are disgusting and degrading, posting somehing this personal on the forums..... You are disgusting and degrading, posting somehing this personal on the forums..... [6 votes] [11%]

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Sep 02 2003 07:37pm

Spork
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 Spork

end it before you get any closer

Sep 02 2003 06:38pm

Nero
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 Nero

yup my advice p*wns;)
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Sep 02 2003 06:02pm

Battlin' Billy
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 Battlin' Billy

LOL @ Java!!!

Never heard that joke b4!

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Sep 02 2003 03:01pm

Kueller
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 Kueller

A lot of sensible advice and wise advice from the dutch guys here. GO US!!! :P
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Sep 02 2003 02:45pm

D@RtHM@UL
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 D@RtHM@UL

Talk to her about it Jake :)

Sep 02 2003 01:33pm

Gentleman Loser
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 Gentleman Loser


**Warning, the following anecdote contains absolutely no political correctness. Readers of an uptight disposition should change threads now.**


I'll just say this:

'If you do decide to just dump her, then you gonna have to be one careful mamajama, cause a dumped woman is COLD.
I'm talking seventh level of hell cold here....
Cause, some night in your post-girlfriend future, you gonna be drinkin with your buds, and get to feeling a lil bit "antsy".

Who you gonna call then?
Ghostbusters??
Hell no!

You're gonna call her up a make a complete TOOL of yourself, hoping for a lil bit of "for old time's sake", and she's gonna SMACK YOU DOWN, and then she's gonna tell ALL her girlfriends, and their gonna tell ALL their girlfriends, and you're sorry ass aint gonna be getting any from then on unless you get plastic surgery, change your name to Miguel Sanchez, and move to a different continent...'

The following piece of wisdom applies equally to both sexes:

"The smart monkey don't let go of one branch till they got ahold of another"
:P
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Sep 02 2003 11:29am

Nero
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 Nero

talk ==> have sex ==> dump;)
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This comment was edited by Nero on Sep 02 2003 11:29am.

Sep 02 2003 10:51am

BD
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 BD

Talk to her about it .... maybe not the easy way to go ... no ... for sure not the easy way to go but for what I believe the best thing you can do. He, you will never know ... maybe she will suprize you or you will see her in a way you never thought .... but hey ... don't listen to us ... your life ... your path to walk :)
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Sep 02 2003 09:06am

[DJK]Konar
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 [DJK]Konar

If the relationship is falling apart, dump her. Because it's not cool for guys to get dumped by girls :P.

If she's into you, get into her :P
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Sep 02 2003 12:15am

DJ Sith
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 DJ Sith

I stand by my advice :P
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Sep 01 2003 11:43pm

SS/ph00d
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 SS/ph00d

LMAO!!!!! You come to us for personal problems Jake, LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! roflmao! Ahahahahahahahahahahhaah Har har har har har har! hohohohohehehehehehahahahahahaha :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D

But I think you should wait a while, maybe talk to her, see how things go. Don't jump to conclusions like Jello does :P
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This comment was edited by SS/ph00d on Sep 01 2003 11:45pm.

Sep 01 2003 07:10pm

Kueller
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 Kueller

Look like you know the answer yourself Jake. As you write it, such serious doubt is always a very wrong sign. You could try to talk to her about it, you should certainly make clear what the prob is to her. Otherwise, better to do it now then wait and hurt her more.
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Sep 01 2003 07:02pm

JavaGuy
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 JavaGuy

What did Jeffrey Dahmer do after he dumped his boyfriend?


...drumroll...

He WIPED.

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Sep 01 2003 06:26pm

_cmad_
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 _cmad_

yeah man... talk to her 'bout it...

though i agree wit everyone else. u dunno us... u can only hear someone's opinion regarding personal stuff, only if u know him/her very well...
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Sep 01 2003 06:18pm

Bubu
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 Bubu

definitely talk to her about it.

but don't take our advice. you don't know us. we might be aliens secretly sent by the US government to sabotage your love life :P


*goes back into the bunker* the russians should attack any minute now...




*cough*paranoia*cough*
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This comment was edited by Bubu on Sep 01 2003 06:20pm.

Sep 01 2003 02:59am

DJ Sith
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 DJ Sith

Enjoy the physical side a little more then dump her. Sow those wild oats, boy!
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Sep 01 2003 02:59am

Apologetic
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 Apologetic

wouldnt it stink if ur GF was secretly on these forums?lol
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Sep 01 2003 12:40am

Plo Koon
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 Plo Koon

billy's right hes old he might have exsperience :p
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Aug 31 2003 11:51pm

Aeth S'kray
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 Aeth S'kray

well *sniff* Jake finally did it... he... he dumped me :'(


serious, dont sort out your life over here. not that i didnt like reading about you life (>]) but me personally wouldnt make such a decision depending on a poll result of a video game community o_O
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May 26 2003 11:03pm

Phantom
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 Phantom

NO WAY! If shes FINE then you got to keep her ;)
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May 26 2003 08:51pm

KypNadon(AFK)
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 KypNadon(AFK)

sometimes it is funny to have a relation with a different personality :D
i should wat a while a look at it
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May 26 2003 08:40pm

Battlin' Billy
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 Battlin' Billy

If both of you are enjoying the physical side of the relationship, I'd say stick with her until something else comes along. Just talk to her about it and see how she feels about it. Be TOTALLY HONEST!!! Even if she hates you for it now, she'll respect you for it in the future.

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May 26 2003 06:15pm

Fizz of Belouve
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 Fizz of Belouve

well, either way - just the fact that you are thinking about dropping her indicated that this relationship is in trouble, at least from your side.

keep it easy and lay back... things will be cool :)
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May 26 2003 06:10pm

Jake Kainite
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 Jake Kainite

yeah I just felt crazy so thought I'd put it on here. If you have a problem you ask your friends don't you ? well then, I rest my case. I'm gonna have a chat with her, but I can see myself staying with her just so she's happy, I'll put her before me always, as I don't want her to get hurt.
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May 26 2003 04:54pm

JavaGuy
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 JavaGuy

Perhaps, but it's better than going on Jerry Springer!


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