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Girls are the cruelest on the earth
May 27 2003 06:40pm

Kueller
 - Student
Kueller
Hey Guys, just got dumped by a girl after a week. She said she wasn't in love with me anymore. Damn, and she knew how much I loved her. After a week she suddenly doesn't love me anymore. If any girl reads this please tell me this isn't the normal way girls act in matters of love. I am totally broken.:(
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May 30 2003 12:19pm

Trekked
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 Trekked

don't look at a 14 year old for Counculing
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May 29 2003 12:25am

Fizz of Belouve
 - Student
 Fizz of Belouve

well, just look around - most ppl just pick up the first chick that is around and looks cute, and most stay together as a couple for some time - this will most likely not hold very long.

On the other hand, you do have the ability, just as the girls do, to chose a girl, and if you're lucky, she'll chose you, too.

In other words - you'll learn to select your g/f more carefully in order to spare harm to both of you.
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May 28 2003 05:20pm

Johnnyrico
 - Student
 Johnnyrico

i think ur right like there are some girls that are good but usually girls like just use u......
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May 28 2003 03:55pm

ioshee
 - Student
 ioshee

Well put Broda.

It's because people don't understand those things that the divorce rate is so high.
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May 28 2003 03:52pm

Kueller
 - Student
 Kueller

Thanks guys, I'm feeling a lot better after a day of school and all your comments. Broda, you really know what to say. It's exactly that thing. Thanks for reminding me. Love you all guys (In the not scary kinda way)
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May 28 2003 03:48pm

Broda Dagre
 - Student
 Broda Dagre

It might sound as cheesy as sin but love is not a noun. It is a verb. The emotion experienced with love can change. This is because it is actually just simple infatuation. Love can be defined as laying yourself down for the other person, regardless of your own wants or desires. This can be demonstrated in the extremes of literally dying for the other person or washing the dishes because you know it would make her happy and feel appreciated. And it can be demonstrated by anything in between. So I do not offer advice which I know from experience is not what you TRULY want or need. You want to voice your thoughts and hurts. So go ahead and do that. Just remember that if you base your life and one day a future marriage upon the "feelings" of love you are in for pain and disappointment. Feelings are easy to attain but are fickle and change all the time. But love is born out of determination, will power, and a desire that goes deeper than sheer emotion.
~Broda~ 24 and a happily married man :D
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This comment was edited by Broda Dagre on May 28 2003 03:49pm.

May 28 2003 10:27am

Marq
 - Ex-Student
 Marq

well boo fuckin hoo
have a cry
suck it in
take it like a man
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May 28 2003 07:12am

ioshee
 - Student
 ioshee

I'm sorry Kueller.

I am glad to hear you aren't giving up on love.
I did that after a heartbreak and now I'm a bitter emotionless blue robot.

I'd say don't bug her but don't stop loving her either. Well don't stop untill you're ready that is.
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May 28 2003 06:38am

Kueller
 - Student
 Kueller

I agreee totally whispy. And I like it very much. Being fool and all:P
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May 28 2003 05:49am

Silent Whisper
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 Silent Whisper

Only fools fall in love...;)
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May 27 2003 09:54pm

Kueller
 - Student
 Kueller

Thank you guys. Cath, that was the thing she said to me too. It's just so damn hard. And I know that there'll be others. But to be really childish "I want HER". BUt I know that's not the way of love. It has to be from two sides. BUt why has love got to be so cruel as to change it so fast. luckily, she and me can still get along fine. And I heard from her friend that there might be a chance she'll fall in love again. I'll not set my hopes for it. Though I'll stay in love with her some time I think. I don't want to fall in love again the next 2-3 months. Thank you all.:)
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-Taught Gradius all his laming skills :P


May 27 2003 08:38pm

Hèlèñ¢å†hè®îñè
 - Student
 Hèlèñ¢å†hè®îñè

:)...there are plenty more girls out there who are looking for someone just like you...you keep your chin up and keep smiling :) and the right girl will come along and make you happy :)

big hugs
helen xx
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This comment was edited by Hèlèñ¢å†hè®îñè on May 27 2003 08:39pm.

May 27 2003 07:47pm

Fizz of Belouve
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 Fizz of Belouve

yeah, yeah, I've experienced something very similar, a few years ago, though....
she was VERY special to me, too, but I still get sad everytime I think of her and what could have been, _could_ is the word, though.
It was not meant to be - and there is nothing you can do NOW.

Thoughts starting with "If", "maybe" and "eventually" do not bring you a single step further - so get out in the RealWorld (TM) and get a new one, or at least do yourself a favour and do some to toss those memories for some time.

- Dr FiZZ
feel free to contact me ;)
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Midbie council #20 - Fizz - #1933 - Jan '03 - Aug '04

"Renfield, you idiot!"


May 27 2003 07:39pm

Jacen Aratan
 - Student

I've talked with Mr. Kueller, and apparently this was a very special girl so I hope you get over it soon mate, even though it sounds unlikely as Mr. Billy said.

May 27 2003 06:42pm

Battlin' Billy
 - Student
 Battlin' Billy

It takes more than a week to truly fall in love with someone. Don't worry man, someday you'll meet someone and you'll completely forget about this girl. I know it doesn't make you feel any better, but it's true.

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