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40 days and 40 nights, the bet. UPDATED 12/24
Dec 02 2004 05:19am

(Jedi)Obi-JK
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(Jedi)Obi-JK
UPDATE 12/24

Well, this was absolutely unexpected, but I/we (the girl I made this bet with) have called it off. At this point I am almost positive I will still make it, cause this started out as the most fun thing ever, and turned into one of the worst (not having anything at all to do with the bet though)

So, this girl I made the bet with is a girl I work with and she is Indian, so basically think strict "Catholic" morals. The bet itself was just another form of flirting, either way no one was supposed to lose, if I made we were going on an awesome date, if I didnt make it I was throwing her an awesome party. In the mean time we were taking things slow and getting to know each other.

Yup, it was working, and it "was" working awesome.

Then she went to L.A. for a friends wedding. Her bosses friend was at the wedding for only one reason, to tell her about a new job opening at this startup company out in Palo Alto, CA (We live in Ann Arbor, MI)

Yep, he handed her, her dream job, a full relocation check, and a cost of living adusted salary + a 15% raise, and a truck load of stock options.

So her options are that, or me in MI with long cold winters and little culture.

Im sure you can guess what she choose (who wouldnt)

So Hopefully those, who laugh at the beginning can still look back and laugh, when things were good they were amazing. Unfortunely all good things must come to an end, as did this just far to soon in my opinion.

Merry Christmas all

I am going to take a very long nap, and hopefully wakeup after Valintines Day, cause there is nothing worse than dealing with "The Holiday Season, lonely"

P.S. For those that dont know the holiday season starts at Thanksgiving and ends at Valintines Day

Nov. 24th (Thanksgiving)
Dec. 25th (Christmas)
Jan. 1st (New Years)
Feb. 14th (Valintines Day)


UPDATE 12/09

I didnt think I was gonna have any news for a while, but in about 4 hours I am going to Florida to visit a buddy of mine, with another buddy of mine. The guy Im going with works for the airline so were supposidly going 1st class for like $30 each, I have no clue what flights really cost but I hear that this is amazing.

So here is how that fits in with this story:

We are taking a "specific" flight cause there are two stewartesses he knows that usually give him liquor for free and one has introduced him to the "mile high club"

Yup in case you didnt guess by now, her friend saw a picture and thinks I am cute, so not only will pretty girls in cute uniforms be giving me free alchol, but there is a chance that one will want more, and of course they have one day of downtime in Florida with us.......................

As I type this I realize, this is literally insane. Things like this happen to me like once a year at most, it hasnt even been two weeks, since this bet started.

Someone hates me and is rallying girls from everywhere to want me, and freaking complaining!

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UPDATE 12/06

Ok so a quick update and just answering a few questions I have heard.

This is based SOLELY on the honor system, and I will be honest.

To those who say it is impossible, prepare to be proved wrong! Nothing is impossible. I will not be with another girl, or "take care of myself" Although due to the way the male body is cronstructed, there is a chance that my body will decide I am not doing a good job while awake, and cause me a "release" in my sleep, but that is something I have no control over and hence can not be used as criteria to cause me to lose.

THE GOOD
Things are actually going amazing.

I have channeled almost all of my sexual frustration into other aspects of my life.

(no im not humping my desk or anything like that, yet)

I have started exercising again, and it awesome, Im far more productive, at school and work.

THE BAD
The one downside, I went out to the bar this weekend with a girl who is just a friend, and she was telling all the girls we talked to, wether we knew them or not, about this bet and they all thought it was hilarious, and some thought they could get me to fail that night.

I had two hot girls on each side of me, I was plastered drunk, and my bar tab came to $7.00, yes I had hot girls getting "me" liquored up and trying to take advantage of me.

I literally had to run out of the bar, and leap into a taxi, my conversation with the cab dirver went something close to this:

Him: Um I actaully came to pick some other people up
Me: Um I really gotta go, hot girls are trying to make me have sex with them.
Him: (Gives me the best, "wtf is wrong with you look" ever)
Me: Uh, ill double the fair, just drive
Him: Deal!

So hopefully your all still enjoying laughing at me, I know I am.

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Ok so its actually 62 days but, Im assuming a good amount of people have seen that movie.

Starting December 1st 2004, a girl I work with bet, me I couldn't go until Febuary 1st w/o having sex.

No sex
No kissing
No self-pleasure

Nothing.......

So all day I was working, went to the gym, did homework, played guitar, laundry, etc.

At 10pm things start to fall apart, in a serious way.

1.) This insanely hot girl I have been talking to, calles me up totally wasted and asks if I wanna come over and "watch a movie"

Me: "Uh, no I got a lot of work of to do." immediately hang up the phone

2.) My ex-girlfriend hears this through the grape-vien, call me up not even 2 minutes after I get out of the shower, and proposes things that I am fairly certain are illegal in some states.

This was the "1st" day.


Ok so for the terms.

If I fail, I must through a party pay for all the booze, invite all the guests, organize, host, clean-up and etc, all in her honor.

If I win, I get:
1.) A date with her.

Ok so it seems unbalanced, but the date can be in any city in the continental US, and will last an entire weekend, and the only that I will have to pay for is my bar bill if it exceeds $100.00 per night.

So this should be a pretty interesting winter, I will definitely let everyone know who wins, and if people seem interested I will post interesting things that happen along the way.

Wish me luck.


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This post was edited by (Jedi)Obi-JK on Dec 24 2004 07:44pm.

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Dec 24 2004 09:47pm

Bail Hope of Belouve
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 Bail Hope of Belouve

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obi you need to move with her;)
shes the love of your life man, i mean if you are willing to give up everything for that long, and actually fight to do it, you should do everything possible to keep that girl.
-Dice


I agree. You obviously care a lot for her, and I wouldn't let her get away right now.

If I did the same with Greet (my gf) I wouldn't still be dating here right now (9.5 months)
Even though I am only 17, I'm proud of what I did, and I'm glad I did, for I'm dating the most wonderful girl ever made by God

I hope everything will turn out for you Obi, hey I'm sure they will. But don't let her go without saying how you feel. Heck, move in with her, follow her around, stalk her if you have to, but get those feelings out of there. Tell her how you feel, tell her how much you care, and tell her you'd be willing to give everything up.

What's happening right now, is a test, nothing more.
If Greet hadn't kissed that French guy, I would NEVER have realised how much I really liked her, and I would NEVER have asked if I could kiss her (yeah, I'm serious)
Don't let this one slip away Obi, please, do it for yourself, or you'll be damning yourself for all eternity that you didn't

You know what the right choice is, now go for it.
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Dec 24 2004 08:29pm

solitude
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 solitude

merry xmas dude :)
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Dec 24 2004 07:53pm

Dicemaster
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obi you need to move with her;)
shes the love of your life man, i mean if you are willing to give up everything for that long, and actually fight to do it, you should do everything possible to keep that girl.
-Dice
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Dec 24 2004 07:47pm

(Jedi)Obi-JK
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 (Jedi)Obi-JK

I cant see any reason, for me to make anymore updates, the bet seems pretty worthless now, Glad I could make people laugh with this, while it lasted.

Happy Holiday's to all
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Dec 12 2004 01:35pm

solitude
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 solitude

mmm....stewardesses :P
you're in trouble ;)
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Dec 12 2004 02:28am

tarpman
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Let us know how it turns out, you sex-monster, you. :P
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Dec 11 2004 08:55am

The Angel Of Death
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 The Angel Of Death

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I just saw Forty Days and Forty Nights. It's really funny!


yeh same i saw it last night well most of it any way (i was kinda playing a game at the same time it was on)
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Dec 10 2004 12:55pm

Garos
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 Garos

I just saw Forty Days and Forty Nights. It's really funny!


...that's all I have to say. And Jedi Obi, check your damn profile!!!:D

Dec 10 2004 12:55pm

Bail Hope of Belouve
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 Bail Hope of Belouve

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read the comment before that one, bail :P


yeah, but he could be serious or something :P
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Dec 10 2004 07:06am

delta
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 delta

read the comment before that one, bail :P
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Dec 09 2004 05:09pm

Bail Hope of Belouve
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 Bail Hope of Belouve

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Well I was doing well.

It wasnt the hot ex-girlfriend, who offered to do things that are illegal in some states.

It wasn't the hot girls at the bar trying to get me liquored up, so they can take advantage of me.

It was the "guy" smacking me with the purple dildo that is what pushed me over the edge......

so you failed?:(

hey everyone, party is over at Obi's house!! :P
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This comment was edited by Bail Hope of Belouve on Dec 09 2004 05:10pm.

Dec 09 2004 03:26pm

Odan-Wei Belouve
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It was the "guy" smacking me with the purple dildo that is what pushed me over the edge......

Virtue ? :eek:
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Dec 09 2004 04:26am

Tido
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 Tido

Don't even act like you haven't been there Sauce :P

Dec 09 2004 04:12am

Sauce
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ewwww :?

Dec 09 2004 03:49am

(Jedi)Obi-JK
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 (Jedi)Obi-JK

Well I was doing well.

It wasnt the hot ex-girlfriend, who offered to do things that are illegal in some states.

It wasn't the hot girls at the bar trying to get me liquored up, so they can take advantage of me.

It was the "guy" smacking me with the purple dildo that is what pushed me over the edge......
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Dec 08 2004 11:59pm

Furi0us
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 Furi0us

No offense, but I don't think you'll make it. I'll be very surprised if you do. :P

/me slaps Obi-JK with a purple rubber dildo. :cool:
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Dec 08 2004 11:18am

 
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omg MAN!!! omg I don't think I could not stop if I had 2 hot girls by the side of me!


Don't worry Carda, I think they'd probably stop you anyway. :P

Dec 08 2004 10:43am

Carda Jowol
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 Carda Jowol

omg MAN!!! omg I don't think I could not stop if I had 2 hot girls by the side of me!
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Dec 08 2004 01:31am

Garos
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 Garos

You know what'd really suck?
If by the end of all of this, he turns into a celebist! That'd be like an endind to a crappy movie!

Dec 07 2004 11:02pm

Mookie
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 Mookie

But if you stop with sex all together, and this includes self-pleasure - assuming you have fully functional sexual organs your body will still need to err... consumate every once in a while anyway. They can't just tell us to stop, it's biology!

Well, sweet dreams I suppose. ;)

Dec 07 2004 10:54pm

Lian Del Rey
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 Lian Del Rey

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HAHA! I just broke up with my GF so I won't have to worry bout women for a while. LOL hell, I'm the best I ever had!;):D:D:D


EWW!!!!!!!
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Dec 07 2004 04:29pm

solitude
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 solitude

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I suppose it's not so terrible


0_o...read what you just said :)
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Dec 07 2004 12:32pm

Vasper Ba'xian
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HAHA! I just broke up with my GF so I won't have to worry bout women for a while. LOL hell, I'm the best I ever had!;):D:D:D
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Dec 07 2004 10:19am

Odan-Wei Belouve
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Ya know what mate, I sincerely hope she'll respect her share of the deal once you're done with it. Cos, man, I think it's inhuman to live that. Erm, well, I suppose it's not so terrible *shrugs* but, heh, I wish you the best once the torture is finished ;)
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Dec 07 2004 06:47am

(Jedi)Obi-JK
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 (Jedi)Obi-JK

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"it goes against science! do you wanna be the guy who goes against science!!"


Yes
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