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Mar 05 2004 07:04pm

Battlin' Billy
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I'm not sure how comfortable everyone is with talking about this subject. So, before I post any opinions, is everyone cool with discussing this? It's quite an issue here in the US right now.

In the past, we've been able to discuss controvertial subjects without it getting out of hand.

So, does anyone mind discussing this?

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Mar 06 2004 09:45pm

Kueller
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The bible says to kill everybody who dont beleave in God like christs do. Do that give you the right to kill other ppl?
There are great wars becouse "the bible says..." or "the coran says ...". I dont think it's good to argument with bible laws. That would be as right as it was in the middle age where they burned hexes becouse somebody says they have relations with the devil.



Totally agree with this Daid :D


I believe in the esoteric. And the view I have about it is that if two souls are deeply in love with eachother they should have the chance to seal that bond. I think that forbidding this marriage will cause this ppl to feel deep pain, I don't get it, America claims it's a free country for religion and for equal rights, and yet they discriminate the homosexual ppl, I for one don't get it.

And about the part where ppl don't understand Holland bans guns etc, and allow Gay marriage. It's just the point I make, we don't want to be discriminating ppl or cap them in their own personal freedom. Gay marriage has NOTHING to do with drugs or guns, it's about love, just like heterosexual marriage.
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Mar 06 2004 06:30pm

Nero
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Well I think it's really hard to determine if it is alowed or not. Before you can even start thinking of it you must determine if we are talking about the political aspect of it or about the religious aspect of it.

I think that politics are not alowed to involve in matters like this. They can make laws yes, but they should count for all people as 'logical' and should be involved with crime instead of people who love each other and want to show that.

A religion is alowed to involve in such matters, it's just what they think and if you do not agree with it, then you don't. No-one is going to blame you for it. If you are gay and you want to marry then just accept that your religious group does not support your thinking.

What I'm trying to say is that politics should not involve in such matters, but I think a religious group has the right to disagree with it. (so gay people are alowed to marry in a non-religious way)
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Mar 06 2004 06:22pm

Ulic |retired|
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Strictly speaking it should be impossible for a president in trias politica system to begin and end his speeches religious.
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Mar 06 2004 06:07pm

Halendor
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Although the US claim to be THE democratic and modern state, it knows no strict separation of church and state and is therefore obviously not.


I think the USA have seperated Church and state. The Church has nothing to say about how to run the state in a direct way. Realistically, that is about as much seperation as you can get.

Indirectly the Church is of course influencing the state's policy, because the people who run it go to Church, and take the words of their preacher (?) back to their work. You can't stop this unless you force everyone to stop believing, which is as discriminating as not letting gay people get married ;)

Mar 06 2004 05:55pm

JamesF1
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interesting view.. so your saying is a couple is unable to concieve a baby. they shouldn't marry..


I said if it CAN'T not if it DOESN'T :) If you get what I mean.


No, you all misunderstand me. I mean, man+woman CAN produce children (although, in some cases they don't WANT to, or there is a problem).

man+man or woman+woman cannot produce children at all - its not possible.

I'm not just talking about marriages here - I'm talking about the whole ethic of gay and lesbian relationships. I think its wrong anyway.

What if the woman/man can't?

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Mar 06 2004 05:12pm

Halendor
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a state encourages people to have kids, because thats what keeps a state/country w/e alive.

marrige is the subject to that. u get some lower taxes and other benefits.

that does not apply to same sex marriage.
if its for religious marriage ceremonial, yes, im all for it. but the official law-wise same sex marriage, no.


What about the one-child policy in China? What about enormous amounts of money pumped into projects to educate people about birth control?

And your saying because you're gay, you're not allowed to have the same benefits as straight people. That doesn't seem fair to me.

Mar 06 2004 05:09pm

Ulic |retired|
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'modern', 'democratic' states should follow the guidelines of the trias politica by Montesquieu. Separation of the powers, and VERY important, separation of the State and the Church.
Of course you can follow eg the Bible in certain matters and involve religion in politic parties. However, I think a 2000 year old book could be used as inspiration, not as rulebook.
Religious parties are ok, and religious thoughts are ok, as long as they don't interrupt the humanrights, and the constitution.

Although the US claim to be THE democratic and modern state, it knows no strict separation of church and state and is therefore obviously not.
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Mar 06 2004 04:47pm

Bail Hope of Belouve
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and you put spaces in between those words because:

a) The site won't let you post a sentence with Jacen and the words is right in one sentence

b) You didn't notice it

C) No inspiration for c
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Mar 06 2004 04:45pm

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jacen is r i g h t ! ! !
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Mar 06 2004 04:41pm

VirusD
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i dont care about it really 2.

but i still think marrege should be between women and a man. IF some men claim that they love each other then who cares live but dont get merried.:P
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Mar 06 2004 04:21pm

Bail Hope of Belouve
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well, I don't think babies/children w/e should hold a couple back of marrying.

if my girlfriend wouldn't be able to conceive children, I'd still marry her;)

Such a thing is about love, and caring.
Not about being able to have babies, or not to have babies.

I do still agree with what Jacen said a few posts earlier.
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Mar 06 2004 04:14pm

Jacen Aratan
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interesting view.. so your saying is a couple is unable to concieve a baby. they shouldn't marry..


I said if it CAN'T not if it DOESN'T :) If you get what I mean.


What if the woman/man can't?

Mar 06 2004 04:12pm

JamesF1
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 JamesF1

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interesting view.. so your saying is a couple is unable to concieve a baby. they shouldn't marry..


I said if it CAN'T not if it DOESN'T :) If you get what I mean.
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Mar 06 2004 02:03pm

Katan
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I very much so agree with what Aratan said, trying to have a book determine YOUR life is fine, but dont use it to determine other's paths, when they dont use that book.

I'm fine with same sex marrige's, its all about love, if two guys love each other, hell, get married, I dont give a 5h!7.

Its THEIR choice to make not ours.

I also agree with what Fizz said, don't make them married in the same sense as regular marriges within the law.

Basically, if they leave me out of it, I'm fine with it :P
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Mar 06 2004 01:27pm

Axion
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yea good point.. they obvioulsy wouldn't be happy..
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Mar 06 2004 01:11pm

Bail Hope of Belouve
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As far as the adoption go,
I totally agree with Jacen.

This kid will get ridiculed, bullied, among others.
Not to mention there are teachers out there who can't stand this kind of thing.
Imagine the kid's life.
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Mar 06 2004 01:08pm

Jacen Aratan
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I couldn't care less whether homosexual people marry or not. That's their case, if they want to, sure, if they don't, fine with me again. I care as little about their marriages as I do when it comes to random hetero people's marriage.

When it comes to adoption, then I'm a bit sceptical, though. Not because I doubt they'd make fine parents or anything like that. Only because I don't think the child will enjoy going to school when he/she has two dads.

EDIT: As for the religious stuff.... please, guys, do you want a book to be in charge of other people's lives? Sure, if you want the Bible to guide your life, feel free to do so. But don't let it guide other's life. Especially not if they don't even follow same religion.

This comment was edited by Jacen Aratan on Mar 06 2004 01:18pm.

Mar 06 2004 12:45pm

Axion
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My View (outside of Christianity):
As I always say, "If it can't produce kids - its wrong."


err gay couples can adopt kids.. don't forget that..
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Mar 06 2004 12:32pm

Bail Hope of Belouve
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Well,
I'm not forward it,
but I'm also not against it.

Sure, sometimes, when I see two guys kissing on the street, I just turn away.

But I'm not against it at all.
If you love eachother, then you love eachother. Can't help that, now can you?

Sure, it's weird, and some may find it disgusting, but think about it...
You're dealing with people's lives here. Not just some ordinary tool which needs fixing. Sure, there are lots of gay jokes and stuff like that, and I laugh when I hear them, but I also know that these guys don't behave like those jokes at all. I even got some friends who are gay, and if you didn't know it, you wouldn't see it.

Those people have a right to get married, if they want to, and I won't stand against it.

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Mar 06 2004 12:06pm

Daidalus[JAP] Fisto
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The bible says to kill everybody who dont beleave in God like christs do. Do that give you the right to kill other ppl?
There are great wars becouse "the bible says..." or "the coran says ...". I dont think it's good to argument with bible laws. That would be as right as it was in the middle age where they burned hexes becouse somebody says they have relations with the devil.

My oppinion is that gays or lesbians just were born in the wrong body. You cant punish them for their unlucky.

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Mar 06 2004 12:03pm

Dicemaster
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/me thinks its f'd up that the netherlands let gay men get married, but they all hate guns, and hunting...

in my opionion, its morally wrong. I don't believe its right in anyway, and i don't believe it should be legal.
However, i don't have a problem with homosexual people, so if someones gay i don't hate them, i think the action is wrong, not the people
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Mar 06 2004 11:15am

Fizz of Belouve
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a state encourages people to have kids, because thats what keeps a state/country w/e alive.

marrige is the subject to that. u get some lower taxes and other benefits.

that does not apply to same sex marriage.
if its for religious marriage ceremonial, yes, im all for it. but the official law-wise same sex marriage, no.
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Mar 06 2004 06:48am

Zoro Kakashi
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disagree with the idea of such arrangement greatly
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Mar 06 2004 05:44am

VIPER or BlaCk
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I personally do not agree with same sex marriages, because I am a devoted catholic, and cant stand to watch two guys, or girls for that matter kiss and get all touchy feely.

But on the other hand, they do have a right to get married, after all.... we live in AMERICA dont we??

well most of us!

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Mar 06 2004 03:36am

DJ Sith
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I don't mind conversation on it so long as no flames go out. I think that marriage is meant for two people who love each other enough to spend the rest of their lives together, whether they are of the same gender or not. The government has no right to add a discriminatory clause to the constitution.
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